episode #2: Wed. 21th of May WorldTalk Radio studio A:
Polarity part#1 – The Art of Attraction
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- What is the secret of attraction? How can you be more attractive instantly? Why are so many men just wimps? And why do the bad guys seem so good? Why do women seem so cold sometimes, or is the bitchy ice-queen the national mascot? What do women really want? What are men actually thinking? In the next two part Get Better Now show you’ll find out the simple answers to these hard and ageless questions. Plus the real juicy answers like – How does lots of crazy, steamy, ravaging sex and stable monogamy mix, and even compliment each other? When to talk and when to just frickn’ take her. The secret way of communicating so you’ll never have to ask him to do anything ever again; he’ll just want to do it – and love you for it too. So…If you’re going to listen to a Get Better Now show THIS is the one, it is like the decoder ring for the sexes and relationships.
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The quality of your sex is directly proportional to the attraction you and your partner experience.
So what is attraction? Attraction is the interplay of contrast. It is the negative to the positive, the up to the down, the in to the out, and the male to the female. All of these things are magnetically attracted to each other. The union of that contrast in people is sex. The more the contrast the better the spark, or attraction, and the more intense the exchange of energy.
The key to taking advantage of this process is understanding where you are on the scale of male to female, and where on that scale you are relative to your partner. Your partner also needs to know the same understanding relative to you. In this way if you want to increase and sustain attraction - that magnetic spark - you want to realize more of that part of you that is polarized to the major part of your partner. The attraction is about polarization and flow of energy from one contrast to another. The more feminine your partner is the more masculine you want to be to create that attractive spark and visa versa. In fact, the thing that attracts you and your partner - magnetism this principle of attraction - is what the entire universe runs off of.
The question arises; "Is this how you have to be all the time towards your partner, especially if this is not necessarily your true nature?"
No, only when you want to create this attractive spark and want to initiate the flow of energy. This is your choice.
The other question that inevitably comes up is: ”Ok, so I have to be more masculine or feminine depending on my partner to create that spark. Then what exactly does being masculine or feminine mean? I mean other than the obvious anatomical stuff?”
Well, masculine and feminine have less to do with your physiology than it does with your energetic attitude. Understand that women can be more masculine than some men and visa versa.
What are those tendencies that delineate masculine (below M) from feminine (below F)? Here are some examples:
M: Fixed ----------------------F: Fluid
M: Grows by challenge-------F: Grows by praise
M: Directed--------------------F: Both/Diffused
M: Analytical------------------F: Intuitive
M: Angular--------------------F: Curved
M: Sharp----------------------F: Soft
M: Focused-------------------F: Infinite
M: Consciousness------------F: Life force/Nature
M: Desires trust--------------F: Desires love
M: Purpose driven-----------F: Devotion
M: Past driven ---------------F: Present driven
M: Release from constraint--F: Unity with everything
M: The warrior---------------F: The goddess
These are just some concepts that relate to male and female energy; If you want more try reading some of the works of David Deida, Alison Armstrong, or Satyen Raja.
After understanding the differences, next you want to identify which set is closest to you natural tendencies, and when you want that attractive spark you must then accentuate those tendencies. This will attract the most compatible partner; someone perfectly designed to satisfy all your more interesting quirks. And if you are with someone already these concepts will take your relationship to the next level.
Realistically, all you have to do to totally integrate these concepts is to pick one or two of the tendencies that are your weakest and work on then until they are naturally at the level you want them. Then just pick one or two more and keep on going.
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ReplyDeleteActually, it wasn't the blowjob comment that got my attention - it was the techniques you suggested for women to use to inspire. On the one hand, I'm definitely someone who takes opportunities, as you say, to improve the lives of those I love.
On the other hand, isn't suggesting that the trash is full classic passive-aggressive behavior? Isn't that just unexpressed resentment?
Following your reasoning, I'd suppose that the issue there is that our psychological tools were 95% created by men, under the power of our assumptions about similarity.
Is asking someone to do something really so disempowering?
On the other hand, how is ignoring the requests of someone you've decided to live with anything BUT uncaring and selfish? Who cares why our prototypical man ignores these things? Supposing for a moment that everyone deserves happiness, are this person's values compatible with the person they're with?
So... I just got a call mid-post from a mutual friend, we started to argue your points, and basically wound up confirming them!
That said, does popular psychology have any uses for women?
And given that being a man doesn't have to mean being a neanderthal... why date schmucks in the first damn place?
Right now, I'm listening to your radio show on detoxification, and it seems to me that the body is a pretty good metaphor for all asspects of life, and that detoxing one's financial situation, for example, might be a key element in creating a better one. Why does the body hang on to these toxins? Basically, i figure it's afraid that what it's getting is all it will get, and gven our society's health patterns, it's a reasonable fear. Certainly, the same could be said of my own financial behavior... why do we hang onto a job, or a relationship, or the things we own? In order to trade up, you have to be willing to sell...
ReplyDeleteHaving now heard your story, I've got to congratulate you on everything you've done for yourself, and send my love and gratitude that you're here and healing. Sometime, I need to tell you my "before/after" story - very much a wake-up call for me.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was in college, I saw a documentary on the !Kung plainsmen (and plainswomen) of South Africa, and one of the memorable moments of the doc was when a young hunter exclaimed "I love a meal that evacuates the bowels!"
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